Dr. Celive talks about financial exploitation to South Africa

A young woman was a conversation about the southern conversation about a form of South African doctor, domestic violence and shrouds and financial abuse of silence.

In a number of viral videos, Dr. Celiwe Ndaba said that his husband was financially exploited, how spiral, and the cause of them.

Three weeks sitting in his car often, despite his successful career, he feels manipulated to finance his husband’s lifestyle, especially Mercedes’ will want to manage Benz.

It was a “worst decision”, which was under the great financial pressure of his life, was the “worst decision” under the great financial pressure of his life to receive such vehicles.

Despite his enjoyment for his wife, he said, he refused – he was accused of “turning it a small car to drive him a small car.”

The drug said he was talking about what he wanted to warn others – it was not only a “little lucky” woman who found themselves in “illiterate” and offensive.

His abandoned husband, Temitope Dada, did not meet the BBC request for comments.

Following the social media storm, one of the first videos in one of his first videos: “You can know me … ‘Mr. Benz or nothing.” “

Hashtags are accompanied by Hashtags like #DivorCetrauma – he said.

Nevertheless, Dr. Ndaba’s Comments section on Tiktok and other social media platforms turned into support groups full of female bakers who shared eerily similar stories.

“You are brave to speak so open … I suffered in silence,” he said.

A lawyer in Cape Tain, therefore, therefore, although South African women have become doctors, lawyers and entrepreneurs, do not be free from the clutches of the patriarch.

The financial independence of women says conflicts with “cultural norms that prioritize male power.”

If there is something, their successes targets them.

When a partner explains the authorization, when the financial operation occurs when the other’s financial resources are dominated or operating.

“He says the victim’s domestic violence is subtle, but strong tactics.”

In South Africa, it is legally classified as an economic exploitation within the local act of violence.

Mr. Preller says things like “involve money to intervene in basic or common assets or interfering with joint assets.”

A university teacher who demanded anonymity, said he lied to the BBC’s husband about his specialties, and as a result, he left him with material ruins.

Based on the car, it was mainly driven but never burned. Then the loans removed for many unsuccessful businesses. Finally, for their families who entered the three children, the expulsion warning came to the rent, putting all the costs on his shoulder.

Nevertheless, they remained together in the eleven years – even though he was physically abusive.

“It is very smart … I was in love with his big dreams. But he could not follow them with actions. His pride was his collapse.”

He did not contribute when he could earn some money.

“He began to catch the money for himself. He drinks a drink with his friends, returned – the salary went.”

Legal Finance Specialist Somila Gogoba has deep psychological roots very often than financial exploitation outside the control of the money.

“For the abuse, this behavior, inadequate feelings, the fear of refusal,” he said to the BBC.

“The psychological impact for the victim includes feelings of impairment, fear and addiction that can be paralyzed.”

Studies from the University of South Africa are women who are not isolated and facing the risks of close partnership violence of women, which remove their partners.

Only two of the 10 women who are the main bakers of their families were married.

“Eight of the participants arise as a result of their experience, physical, emotional and sexual violence … All women said that a provider of women’s role as a threat of a traditional man’s role as” The researcher said Bianca Parry.

Ms. Gogoba says female bakers are less valuable than men’s counterparts, despite economic contributions.

“This control is not only related to money – it is also about to keep a grip in strength and attitude dynamics.”

Nombulelo Shange, a sociologist teacher at Free State University, it says middle-class women are part of material evaluated women in South Africa.

“Black women face a double patriarchy: Western expectations at work, traditional expectations at home. We have increased harmful ideologies in collisions,” he said.

He has a successful woman balancing the pressures of being a woman, but “caregiver, mother, good wife, good neighbor and community member women are always around men’s egos.”

Dr. NDABA’s verses, women’s partners in social media shared their stories to give debit or credit cards when they go out to eat debit or credit cards.

For the MS Shange, this shows how a happy house loads often to the shoulders of the cargo.

“Do you think: ‘I will be happy if I just get them a car.’ Love is blinding you. Your man is fighting, and you are fighting – you want to make it.

After divorcing the husband of the university teacher, 140,000 dollars were indebted to the rock – all was racked on his behalf.

“Previously, I could plan things like holidays. Now they are luxury,” he said.

As Dr. Ndaba did in a Vlog, he suffered the pain, “the pain of financial people who are the marriage of finances.”

Teachers could not agree more, young women got acquainted with their partners and had open and honest conversations.

“Talk about finance, talk about your background, talk about emotions and character.”

Ms. Gogoba called on more people to protect their partner, keep a separate bank account, keep their pins reliably and watch credit cards.

They all agreed that women do not understand the lack of love with the unstable price label.